Citer mak pasal kaverina terpaksa digantung kejap sebab mak tengah mencari kekuatan bila dapat tau salah sorang kawan mak yang dari golongan kaverina ni telah menamatkan zaman solonya baru-baru ni.
Korang mesti heran kan ... apa motif mak tulis pasal citer kaverina ni. Adakah mak jeles dengan kaverina yang berjaya menemui pasangan masing-masing atau dah bertaubat? Kenapa mak nak sibuk ambik tau kehidupan peribadi kaverina-kaverina yang terhangat di pasaran kan ...
Well my dearest readers yang mak tak kenal ... semuanya ada berkaitan dengan "pertemuan" dengan B ni lah yang mak citer dalam Kaverina Part 1. Terus terang, mak memang in real life and in person tak kesah lah depa nak buat apa with their life. Tapi when their life dah masuk campur my life terpaksa lah mak luahkan melalui blog mak ni.
Ok... sambung balik citer kisah mak dengan "B"... so nak jadi citer, weols pun jadi housemate lah kat Brisbane ni. Seperti mak mentioned dalam Part 1, mak mula-mula tak kisah kongsi rumah dengan sapa-sapa pun. Asalkan orangnya pembersih, tau tatasusila duduk berkongsi dan pandai bawak diri masing-masing. Paling penting, they respect my privacy.
Lagipun, dari awal lagi mak taknak duduk keseorangan sebab lepas kena hi-blood pressure yang tinggi mendadak tu, mak memang decided mesti stay with someone in case apa-apa berlaku, lagilah mak jauh dari family. Tapi Gayah memang against mak duduk dengan orang dah kawin .... first 3 is a crowd , and secondly ... takut hormon tak stabil bila dengar "dengusan-dengusan asmara".
Kalau ikutkan ... memang kesian jugak kat Gayah masa first sampai kat UK and duduk dengan satu pasangan suami isteri from Malaysia. According to "her", stress gila bila tiba-tiba kipas siling bergegar for 5 minutes, tak kira masa ... siang atau malam. Hmmm anyway 5 minutes ... cepatnyaa.
In my case, the stress doesn't come in the form of "3 is a crowd". It is an emotional turmoil of being the bystander, especially dengan mak sedang mengharap untuk bertemu jodoh di Brisbane ni. Firstly, "B" memang tak treat his wife as his wife. For me, his wife is just like satu "liability" but he needs it to cover his real self. One time weols gi shopping, he bought everything for himself and none for his wife except perfume set ... itu pun sebab discount. And then, bila dia buat sesuatu ... he never consulted his wife, and sometimes I think dia macam buat "dek" je dengan his wife.
One night I left the house in case they want to "copulate". I lepak kejap kat rumah my neighbours who happened to be from Malaysia as well. When I came back, I saw them macam buat hal masing-masing. And paling yang mak curious ... why bila weols lepak di rumah salah sorang member weols ... not far from our house ... "B" nampak excited semacam. Kalau cakap pun siap pegang-pegang lagi. And it happened like many times ...bersemangat gila "B" do everything for this guy.
Mak perati this guy yang "B" suka, memang not bad looking. Lemah lembut, tapi suara dia ada seksi sikit. If not sebab mak pelik dengan "B" ... mak taklah observe "this guy" betul-betul. And mak perati lagi sekali ... ada juga taste mak sikit in terms of gaya berpakaian and gaya bercakap. Pernah satu ketika, I caught him looking at my chest ... confuse kejap mak (walaupun ada lah rasa mcm Pamela Anderson kejap). Tapi between the two of us ... mak always got mix signals. Oh oh ... this is not good.
Everything was OK sehinggalah satu malam tiba-tiba "B" kata nak tengok wayang. Mak kata mak taknak ikut sebab nak tengok DVD satu filem klasik yang mak dah lama mengidam nak tengok. Mak just kata "u guys go ahead". To me ... I meant him and his wife. Then tiba-tiba "B" ajak "this guy" and his housemate. I was like haaa ....
And benda jadi lebih akward when the wife asked me about tengok wayang tu. I told her ... yes he asked me but I don't want to go. And later that night, berlakulah sesi "Kak Seri Siantan" antara mak dengan wife "B". She told me she felt hurt that "B" tak pernah nak bagi tau dia apa2 ... always the last to know. Never sensitive about her feelings ... she sacrifice everything including career to join him here tapi nafkah dari segi duit tak bagi. Tapi benda yang paling mak confirm yang "B" is a kaverina was when wife kata ... "not sure he is ready to be a father and want children" and "no ... I never ada miscarriage". Mak terkasima kejap ... "B" pernah citer kat mak yang wife miscarried tu yang lama kawin tapi takde rezeki ada anak.
Terus mak takut pulak kalau dapat laki yang kaverina macam ni. Ada satu hari mak just drop hints lah kat "B" supaya lebih peka dengan feelings wife ... terus mak dapat rasa intonasi suara "B" berubah, macam warning mak supaya jangan masuk campur. Yea ... I got the message and I back off since then.
Cuma when another kaverina friend kahwin baru-baru ni ... mak rasa kesian for that innocent looking girl. My former boss who is a sexologist by profession pernah bagi tau ... Men by designed memang very sexual and their mind are focus on fulfilling that sexual need (ini termasuklah yang women trapped in a man's body). That's why many men cheat (or ada niat to cheat) and when they cheat, they can do it without remorse as long as that sexual need is fulfill. Mak ada jugak rasa statement ni mcm tak betul tapi bila dia add that part "without remorse" mak rasa ada betul.
I wonder how long my kaverina friends can hold on to the sanctity of a straight marriage. It will just hurt both parties. We just have to wait and see what happen next.
Note:
This is just my personal view on isu kaverina. I am not imposing what I believe is right to my readers. Everyone is entitle to their own opinion.
Love from Down Under,
MJ
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